“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” — Wayne Gretzky

By: Melissa Rageth, AIC-M, AIM, AINS, CISR, CLP-A, CIIP, TRIP, DAE, CRIS, MRIS

How do you gain invaluable leadership skills, build lifelong friendships, and grow professionally—all while doing work you love?


For me, the answer was joining IAIP.

I was introduced to IAIP in 2018 by a friend who invited me to a local meeting in Minnesota. By the end of that meeting, I knew I had found something special. Although the group was small, it was mighty—filled with an incredible depth of knowledge, experience, and genuine support.

Shortly after joining, I found myself unexpectedly unemployed. Instead of letting that setback define me, I chose to lean in. I made as many connections as possible, absorbed everything I could, and committed to learning and growing. I decided not to let my circumstances dictate my attitude or limit my potential.

Along the way, I learned several valuable lessons—specific to IAIP, but applicable to any organization or new experience:

  1. Take a chance. You may discover a group of people you truly enjoy and have a great deal in common with. Say yes to new experiences.
  2. Explore everything the organization offers. When I joined IAIP, I had no idea about CLP, CWC, scholarships, awards, and eLearning opportunities. Since then I have obtained almost all of the designations possible.
  3. Get involved in Special Interest Committees and Task Fores. There are many SIC’s and Task Forces available that could use you and your expertise.
  4. Expand beyond your local group. If your chapter is small—or if you simply have the time—participate in events across other regions. I have joined meetings throughout the U.S. and formed incredible, lifelong friendships. Every group welcomed me with open arms.
  5. Apply for scholarships and awards. There are few opportunities in life where we are encouraged to highlight our accomplishments. The worst that can happen is not receiving the award, but the application process itself is rewarding and helps strengthen your writing and self-reflection skills.
  6. Lean in and make it a priority. If you don’t prioritize the group, it’s easy for it to fall by the wayside. IAIP means a great deal to me personally and professionally, and that is why I am serving as RVP for my region. Joining regional Facebook groups, Zoom calls, and trivia nights adds another layer of connection and fun.
  7. You truly get out what you put in. I can confidently say that if I hadn’t attended virtual regional meetings and Facebook events in the past 7 years, I would have missed out on friendships and experiences that have enriched my life in countless ways.

Life has a way of working itself out. I did find a wonderful job, and I’m loving every minute of it. I continue to share my IAIP experience with anyone who will listen because I believe deeply in its impact.

Don’t miss out on opportunities that could change your life. Jump in headfirst. Take the shot—you never know what you might be missing.